Perfection is Just Fear in a Better Outfit

Perfection is Just Fear in a Better Outfit

A reflection on perfectionism, imposter syndrome, and the quiet moment a woman stops asking for permission, trusts herself, and recognizes that the life she’s lived is still unfolding.

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Intention Is the New Glow-Up: A Soulful Rebellion Against Resolutions

Intention Is the New Glow-Up: A Soulful Rebellion Against Resolutions

Every January, we get ushered back into the same familiar ritual of deciding who we think we should become. We call them resolutions, but they often feel more like negative reviews we give ourselves.

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The Risks of Protecting Your Peace

The Risks of Protecting Your Peace

The holidays are a cluster fuck of family, friends, feelings, expectations, Hallmark joy … and conflict. The truth is that the season rarely matches the version we imagine it should be, and in between the glossy good times come the gritty ones that smack you sore.

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The Language of Lack vs. the Language of Abundance (examples)
The Badass Method, Appreciation, True Story Tina Bernard The Badass Method, Appreciation, True Story Tina Bernard

The Language of Lack vs. the Language of Abundance (examples)

What if, despite your best intentions, you're anchoring to struggle, scarcity and survival?

You’ve practiced gratitude. You’ve made the lists, whispered thank you through tears, and tried to find the lesson in the chaos. But deep down… something still felt off. Like maybe gratitude wasn’t the whole story. Like maybe your soul was asking for something more.

And in those moments when you’re tired, stuck, or overwhelmed, gratitude may have felt like a spiritual band-aid. A well-meaning fix that doesn’t touch the wound.

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My Night(mare) in a Haunted B&B
The Badass Method, Appreciation, True Story Tina Bernard The Badass Method, Appreciation, True Story Tina Bernard

My Night(mare) in a Haunted B&B

Meeting Casper the Horny Ghost was Not on the Itinerary

The plan was simple. Romantic. Take my new husband to a charming B&B, then soak in the healing waters of a mineral spa. He'd never been to either, so this had to be good. 

I researched it all - every detail curated with love and intention. The spa was divine. The B&B was straight out of the Gone with the Wind movie set...if Scarlett had a thing for flickering shadows and antique dolls with side-eyes.

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